Beyond Blossoms: Thoughtful Gestures in lieu of flowers

In moments of grief, offering solace goes beyond the traditional gesture of presenting flowers.  Many people receive an influx of flowers when someone dies that they often don’t have enough vases to keep them in.   The water in flowers needs changing and they will eventually die.   All of this may be too much for someone to cope with when consumed with grief.   

If you would really like to send flowers, it may be worth considering giving them at a later time when not everyone is sending them at the same time. I am sure they will be greatly appreciated in a month. 

Here are a few alternatives to flowers 

While flowers may provide immediate comfort, there are myriad alternative ways to support someone navigating the challenging journey of loss. Consider these alternatives to flowers.  

Home-cooked Meals: Prepare and deliver homemade meals that are easy to reheat. This can alleviate the burden of cooking during a difficult time.

Self-Care Package: Create a care package with items like scented candles, soothing teas, a cozy blanket, and a heartfelt note encouraging self-care.

Give a plant: Instead of traditional flowers, consider giving a potted plant or a small tree.   

Offer Help with Practical Tasks: Extend a helping hand with daily tasks like grocery shopping, house cleaning,  childcare or walking the dog,  to ease the burden on the grieving person.

Donation in Memory: Donate to a cause or charity that was important to the person who has died.   Share the details with their loved one as a meaningful tribute.

In times of sadness, it's the thoughtful and personalized gestures that help avoid someone feeling isolated in their grief.  

Remember, the most important thing is to show your support and let them know you are there for them in whatever way they need.